Yes , wife is very committed to saving marriage. Even though we are both over 55, I don't think the sex aversion problems are hormonal related. She has been turned off, no desire for sex or intimacy since we were married as I posted. During counseling she revealed she had no desire or need for sex. She rated it at the bottom of all other emotional needs. Saw a post from someone else that mentioned asexual. I checked out the asexual.org website. Many of the key facts that were listed about asexuals were the same attitudes exhibited by my wife for over 25 yrs. Is it simply a low desire or possibly asexuality? Anyone else have any thoughts on this subject?