Originally Posted By: Rick1963
How does one become a WAS? That is what needs to happen to me. I think I'm getting close to being one.


So...do you want to save your marriage or pack it in? I think you need to answer that honestly before you can move on.

Believe me, I have flipped back and forth on my own marriage almost daily. It was only when the PA was confirmed that I made the final decision.

If there is no OM, you might want to think long and hard about what your true goals are. Take your time, too.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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