The question is, what are you going to do with this information?
What can I do? Done is done.
When she bombed me with ILYBINILWY on March 7, I panicked, did everything wrong then tried to 180 and give her what she needed.
When she told me she was moving out in August, I thought, "Maybe this is what we both really need - time and space away from each other. It might still be OK."
When I found out OM and his mother were moving in, it looked pretty bleak, but not impossible.
My W having sex with another man while still being married to me? No, I will not play the fool any more.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS