Lila don't bet that you'd get any more support from his family even if it was "dramatic". Blood is thicker than anything, and while they may hate what he does or is doing, they have to put up with him for the rest of their lives. I have yet to see a family who really will stand up to their members.

My W started feeling out her family last week about some things. I guess a small part of me thought they would tell her she's crazy... test her theories... ask her the hard questions. But no... they simply reinforced her narrative and stayed quiet. Since then her sister has asked me what my W is thinking, but will she challenge my W? Not a chance.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD