Hi FIB,

I have followed your sitch since the very beginning over on the MLC Board. I haven't posted much over the years, but have gotten a lot of strength from your posts, and good advice from your friends here.

I finally accept the end of my 21 year relationship. I never would have pictured myself on the dating scene at 50, but just knowing there are honorable men like you out there gives a girl hope.

Even though you haven't found the right girl yet, you're trying. Can you PLEASE give some advice & encouragement on how you went about putting yourself back out there.