Regarding your W's need to tell you about everything that is going on in her life, maybe try to be somewhere else when these conversations typically occur. For example, if you tend to have these conversations during morning coffee or something like that, how about going for a walk instead or go to a coffee shop by yourself during this time. This way W only has herself to talk to and you are doing something for you.
Just a suggestion. Hang in there!
Thanks, I appreciate the advice. In general, I think I am going to spend less time around. She spends most evenings out (when I'm not working), while I'm at home studying. My sole important GAL activity has been trumped for the last month by stuff she needs/wants to do on Wednesday nights. She was out of town a couple of times, she wanted to go out last Wed since I was working Tuesday, Thursday Friday nights. This Wednesday, which makes it a month, she's going to a concert.
She professes to care about me still, but in light of recent revelations and her behavior, I'm not really seeing it, nor do I much care to. I probably have another couple days this negativity, as I work through some things. Then, as is my way, I will simply move past it and regain my positive attitude. At least that's what I'm planning. Just need to stay away from her during the next few days.
