WHG, H, and JB- thanks as always for the support. It does help to know I'm not the only one dealing with this.
Journaling...
After the FB debacle it seems like things started to snowball. H was at an event out of town and called past D's bedtime (she was already asleep). I didn't hear my phone. Of course, he was mad and made a comment about this being par for the course.
Follow that up with, I took some of D's things from the house while he was out. He knew I was going to be there, but I didn't mention taking Ds things because I honestly didn't think it was a big deal. He was furious, and threatened to escalate the D again. Again, he says something about 'nothing has changed'.
I'm confused by the 'nothing has changed' comments- I absolutely did a 180 on my reaction to his anger. Didn't take the bait and apologized. He's attacking me again, and it is over the most inane things.
I am so incredibly sad these days, and he seems completely bent on ending things. Anybody have some suggestions?
