Thanks, all of you, for your kind words. I am focusing on seeing my son this week so that helps keep my mind occupied. Went to dinner with good friends last night; they know what is going on and can only shake their heads in disbelief. They are also ready to play matchmakers, but I assured them that step is a long way off.
I think the part of this that stuns me is knowing the pain and hell we put our exes through, and what we went through with our own divorces. This situation is a carbon-copy of 11 years ago. I realize now that there was nothing I could have done differently to prevent this; she is wired this way. But the thought of her giving herself so easily to another man while still married to me is just hard to deal with.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
