Trying not to hope is hard [II]

[2thepoint]

Hi Silvery! I know you have had a rough couple of days. Perhaps the best thing for you at this time is to do your best to focus your energy on YOU. Try not to think about your W and instead focus on your own happiness. Do something you have always wanted to do and be happy doing it.

Regarding your W's need to tell you about everything that is going on in her life, maybe try to be somewhere else when these conversations typically occur. For example, if you tend to have these conversations during morning coffee or something like that, how about going for a walk instead or go to a coffee shop by yourself during this time. This way W only has herself to talk to and you are doing something for you.

Just a suggestion. Hang in there!