DG - I was just reading somewhere about how potentially dangerous it is to completely disengage from the relationship. So, if you find that your DB activities are putting you further and further away from your goal of a R, then you might want to reevaluate. If you have reached the point of no return, then why continue to subject yourself to continuing on this roller coaster? On the other hand, if you remain committed to making it work, which I think you are, perhaps it is time to look at other options that will serve to jump start the R.

Just my perspective. Hope it is helpful.


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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife