What do I do next?

[luvhurts49]

I've asked my W if she would go to see a MC, but she flat out won't. Eventhough I am see one myself, she simply won't go. I understand what you are saying about agreeing with what she says instead of refuting it and is something that I try to do, but it is something that doesn't come naturally to me. I know I'm not suppose to believe anything she says at this point, but I'm not seeing anything positive that points to her wanting to come back at this point. Before she filed, I felt that I hadall the time in world to get this worked out, but now that she's field, it seems like I have this deadline which adds more pressure to the situation.