I should mention that last night, I did give exBF a "consequence" re: bedtime. She is on such an overtired spin right now that once took me months to correct when it happened badly over the summer right as he was leaving, that I said, "you can put her to bed anytime you want - you can let her come back out of the room and eat - all that is fine - sorry if I got upset about it earlier" (I did b/c he can't seem to EVER get her in bed at 7 and then it ends up being 9 by the time she cries and begs for food and he lets her get back out of bed and eat, etc.- annoying - but I said, "I spent three months trying to get her back on a schedule over the summer - she stopped napping and got so badly overtired she was sleeping only 8 hours a night with no nap and insane during the day" (he didn't remember - of course he didn't b/c he didn't b/c I didn't even involve him)
So you can do what you want, as long as you realize what happens to her when things get like this - and you can be the one to bring it back into balance this time.
Well, he said tonight she can't leave the room - and he got her down pretty fast.
