TM, Sorry that you are being lied to. Don't feel like a fool.. I still get surprised by my w's actions... even though she has shown her cards before.
The sad truth is that sometimes we LBSers paint a beautiful picture of our spouse. Maybe this happens when we start looking at ourselves so much that we forget that we are only 50% of the equation. Maybe this happens so we can keep fighting the good fight.
Regardless, often our heart and our heads don't match up and it's hard to move forward with conflicting info.
Take some time and process the info given to you and then move forward with what is best for Telemark.
((()))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
