Sandi your description of a male"s behavior is spot on. I asked myself the same. Do I want to be with someone who no longer loves me? The answer is No.Latetly been feeling like that and feeling better. I have something to offer truly I have made some changes and feel great. Many have asked if my W is having an A and I say dunno. I would have made myself sick before now I have no emTions thinking that it is possible? Detaching really helps


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden