Journal: I was responding to some other posts earlier. One poster caught my attention so I followed them back in the archives. One post she made referred to the feelings she had about her first marriage. How she felt and why she left it. How she felt he never loved her etc.
As I read it my skin crawled a little. The reason for that is that it drove home that I really had very little part in my wife's leaving and subsequently divorcing me.
I'm not perfect. I have my issues. But her leaving had little to do with me. I see that. I saw that. But that post reminded me of that and some of the thinking and what role the EA played.
Truth is, if the EA had that impact, the marriage wasn't going succeed anyway. I can see that. But it didn't have to end like that either.
Anyway, just wanted to get that off my chest. Life is short and I have many miles to go (metaphorically speaking) before I rest.
Ciao,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
