I can see what you both are saying and ultimately I have to trust my instincts. Something I used to have much more confidence in than I do now. Anyway - I'm really not questioning my involvement in the groups and I don't feel as if I'm looking for any "transformation" through participation - I am probably just looking for different perspectives. Oh well - 3 weeks of classes left then on to my next one - tennis lessons:)
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time