Adinva, I'm just taking this post of yours and reposting it:

Ok, here you go: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2194145#Post2194145

Sorry they're a little cryptic.

For your dad, sounds like a wall could be healthy sometimes. For your interactions with BF this stuff could be a gold mine.

Have a good weekend! I have to get back to real life...