How do I heal, grow and change?? I thought that is what I am doing?? With these occasional slips. 2 years ago I would've said no way to forgiving him if he did this. I have changed from that person. Still working on everything though. Do you ever really get rid of all the anger? Resentment? How? Alone? I am confused. I thought I had a handle on some of this stuff. I guess not. I am overwhelmed.