I thought my Facebook status was applicable to many of us here on these boards so I thought I'd share...
"Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering you own imperfections, but instantly set about remedying them - every day begin the task anew." - St. Francis de Sales
Of course... being a Catholic saint he really didn't have direct experience with a WAS... so maybe he would've added "and extra patience with your wayward spouse"
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD