queen, life does throw us a bone, hopefully i can enjoy it sometime!
kaffe, she is not cute, but she is a god send. Keeps me on my toes and makes sure i do what im supposed to. I get 4 hours of quiet time while she is here. she doesnt let anyone in to bother me.
i have to say, im in my room as we speak, and my STBXW is in the living room with 7 kids. She just showed up to se me today and see how i was doing. kinda shocked me. She said my mom was going to let her spend the weekend at her place for her visit with the kids.
Well then the kids got home from school and they didnt want mom to leave. So she is staying othe weekend and the kids are having their friends over for a sleep over. Thank god, i have quiet isolation and an onsuite! lol
Not sure why i allowed myself to be talked into this, but i think its just hard for me to say no to the kids right now. My friends came over and we watched a movie and had a good evening.
They all had a good laugh as they think im a lucky SOB and they are glad im not up for poker!
so i feel good. Im handling my health issues, my friends are close, and i dont even feel uncomfortable with her in the house. She has been crying alot, coming in to see if i need anything quit often. Almost like she feels guilty about all this. Well its nice that i can be myself and not nervous or upset with her around.
