One more thing -- I was "adopted" on the SSM forum by "The Captain" (TeaEarlGreyHot). He saved me in many ways, his advice was truly excellent, and I dedicated a lot of his time to my cause. I will be forever grateful to him, and I post here and try to help others in order to pay it back. I also got some great advice from Sandi2 and 25, this forum was key to making it work.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015