When the OM and his mother moved cross-country to live with my W, she swore up and down there was nothing between them. She carefully laid out the sleeping arrangements to me and assured me it was strictly platonic.
Uh-huh.
I didn't believe it, but a little part of me wanted to. So I continued to hope that she was telling me the truth. Our conversations have been pleasant, our face-to-face meetings have been cordial and warm, punctuated by hugs and kisses from her. So I drank the Kool-Aid and figured I would patiently wait her out.
Tonight I was able to spend some time with SS22 and he innocently and gleefully told me that "Uncle R_ _ _ _ and Mom sleep in the same bed! And they kiss a lot!"
Lightning bolt down the spine.
I guess I'm really not surprised. She has become a total stranger to me and obviously has no conscience or morals. I feel strangely calm about this, like I no longer have to wonder what the outcome will be. I can move on with my life unencumbered by second guesses and what if's. The house does not seem so empty and depressing. Maybe it's a form of shock; hard to wrap my head around the fact that the woman I have loved for 11 years has become this person.
Time to GANL...Get A New Life.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
