Ugh...stressed, sad, still hanging on by a thread

[workinghardguy]

RMB... wow, two posters with Facebook deletions in one day... that must be some type of record...

If it makes you feel any better, and it may or may not, he didn't delete you as his W most likely. He probably just hid that status from being publicly visible. My W did the same thing a few weeks ago. She didn't tell me she was doing it, just did it and god did it hurt. I actually confronted her it made me so angry, and all I got was "I didn't plan to.. it just seemed like the right thing to do when I was cleaning up my profile".

How is it they all follow the same general script? It's amazing really... But if you look at my W's page from her login it still says she's married to me. If/When she deletes that it will tell me (and everyone btw in a broadcast posting). The day she dropped the bomb on me was the day before our anniversary. She then removed our anniversary date from her FB page that afternoon and FB sent me an email telling me she did it. Boy did that surprise her!

And yes... this is, if you're lucky, the repercussion of the high you had. He got close, too close for his own comfort, and now had to really "reset the bubble" so you know where things are at.

I don't know if it's worth it or not... but about two weeks ago I got fed up beyond belief with my W "resetting the bubble" every couple of days with hurtful/spiteful comments or acts. So I confronted her, nicely and not aggressively. I validated where she is at, that I am fully aware of her feelings, and that I didn't need these repeated comments/statements/acts that appear to be intended to help me understand she still wants me out of her life at some point.

She actually apologized and said she wasn't conscious of doing it. I can't say that it's made it 100% better... maybe 75% better or 50% better, ask me in a week it might change But it has helped me.