new to this..

[learning2listen]

I need some advice, after reading more of the DR, Im noticing there are alot of things I am not doing.. I am not initiating any R talks, the last time I said anything, he said he just didnt know.

We do not talk about D, infact other then the very first fight which resulted in him moving out the D word has never been mentioned. It has been over two months and in the begining I tried and tried to get him to open up and he didnt said he needed to be left alone with his morose thoughts.

now here we are in complete limbo, I know nothing but he seems to be planning nothing either, he says his life is kind of boring but he kind of likes the boring. And yet he talks about baby steps? yesterdays lunch was good, but I know I will have no reason to hear from him again until next week. What do I do? I love this man, and I actually agree with what I think were some of the problems.. but limbo is quite litterally pulling the life from me. I honestly cant imagine us not working through this. We have faced huge issues together and overcame them. But I feel like I need to re-invent the wheel? I just need some form of feedback.. am I missing it?