Just don't understand...

[tjb54]

Knew it was coming, but hurts still the same. Came home form a parent teacher conference with SD12 this afternoon. Decided to check Facebook and see that W removed our 'Married to' status. Not her status actually, just where your friends see that your married. Not defriended yet, that's just a matter of time I guess. This all stemmed from a blowout last night.

Yesterday our daughters had their Second Degree Blackbelt grad and all went well. Her father & stepmother were there along with one of her nieces and a nephew. I love this side of her family! Anyway, we had a good time it seemed. When it was time for a family pic of of the girls and thier new belts, W would not join in. I overheard her father asking why she didn't want to be in one, W stated that her hair was a mess. I believe he truly understood why though. Sad indeed, I see it as a keepsake for the kids, apparently W does not. I never pushed the issue. We then went back to our house and had cake and icecream. All seemed to be going smoothly. That is till after family left to go home and kids were getting ready for bed.

While W and I were out on the deck having a smoke, she brings up r/divorce talk. Proceed to tell me about the mandatory child class each of us has to take. Then tells me of some changes made in papers regarding visitation. To tell you the truth, I was internally irritated hearing this at this time. I stated, "OK, we'll see". Thinking nothing about it. A 1/2 hour later as she walk be, I ask her a question about our camera and she angrily says, "I DON"T KNOW!" Surprised, I go into her PC room and asks what's wrong? At this point she's ticked at me for my earlier comment outside. She's trying to fast track this D and is probably thinking that I'm gonna press for custody or something like that. I can't understand why W would think that every other weekend is acceptable? 3 days out of 14 is not parenting time. It's reducing me to a visitor.

Anyway, this morning she's cold as ice! Just the day before, we were doing something together and she slipped by calling me 'Hon', that hasn't happened since the D-bomb was dropped.

Just letting it out.......................