wow d3... i read your other thread and half of this one and I had enough...
While we always say here that we need to own our part in the breakdown of the M, I can not imagine anyone with sense about them suggest that your H is abusive... and it is appropriate that you place as much physical and verbal distance between the two of you as you can at this point, including the incident with your D3 and the dark bathroom...
While I know the egg shell thing, trying to keep the peace and all that, I cannot remember having quite the obvious attacks that your H has been bringing on, such as the breakfast incident...
I have my own developmental issues, most of them worked out... but no matter how much work I did to get over them and how strong I was, spending 11 years with a similar personality as your H (the blaming, projecting, discounting, etc...) no one is strong enough and no one should ever have to put up with that and I found some of my traits coming back... I've been working to correct that... I'm almost 100% back, having been physically removed from that for almost a year...
Get yourself safe and take care of you and your D3... find a support group or just a number of supportive friends... and figure out where you want to go from here...
Oh, and considering you're at 58 posts now, you should no longer be moderated so your posts should show immediately on hitting submit...
