new to this..

[learning2listen]

Thank you for this, I really feel like he DOES want to repair this relationship, I dont think he would hesitate moving forward with a D if he was sure that was what he wanted.

I just keep telling myself, this is our time to work on ourselves so we can be stronger together and better than ever. the fact is we stopped nurturing "us" and began taking each other forgranted. We both did this, and maybe just maybe he sees that and he is trying to get himself strong for us.

At times I feel like he is reading DR or Db also, so many similar actions on his part, and the term "babysteps" he keeps using it, and its just not something he would have said in the past.