Hey IAP, I get what you're saying about the church...

So you HAVE looked into annulment... OK... I'm sure if God gave you a sign, you'd find reason for the annulment...

Personally, I do plan on getting an annulment once the D is final. *shrug* I know my priest would do the usual, but I always felt he was "concerned" about the M... about my wife (non-catholic) specifically...

Like bond though, I have always wondered why you tag your sig with that saying, though... It does seem you are holding onto the M...

I don't see that as good or bad... I just see it as not having fully let go yet... and that's ok by me...