Thanks VC, your support give me great encouragement as always.
Since my last post I have not called my wife once, but she has called me about 20 times!!! haha
An example was last night, we had to attend our sons school regarding a trip he is going on.
We had arrange to meet at the school with her talking the kids, just as I was setting off she called me to ask if I could pick up our daughter from school, and meet us at our son's school, she was running late, yeah no problem.
So I arrived with daughter, wife was there already. We listened and discussed things regarding the trip etc, but our daughter was bored and restless, so my wife said if I didn't mind she would take her home so not to spoli things for our son, again no problem.
The event ended and I took son home, I took some extra hand outs that had been given to the door and gave to my wife, she was pleased and we stood for 15-20 minutes, chatting about the kids, trip, etc, all nice, all calm.
I then left and went to my AA meting, I was a little late because of the school thing, but I still went.
It finished and I went home.
I was watching TV around 10.00pm, and my phone rang, it was my wife, I just ignored it, I need some space!!! It rang again, then again, then my mobile twice!!!
I then called her back,she answered laughing saying sorry, I said I had been in the bath, again she laughed and said sorry.
It was regarding nothing again!!!!, I feel that she is calling to check up on me, why the calls so late?
But we ended up laughing on the phone, she asked about AA meeting, sounded pleased and we ended the call.
But she is maintaining contact a lot!!! Just not sure why.
I just have to maintain my distance and my politeness, something is working!!!
