well hi everyone. its been a while. I have just come home from the hospital. was a tough battle the last while and im lucky to be home.
my kids have been living with my parents and i scared them verymuch. But im home, on bed rest and umfortunatly i have a nurse come every day to ensure i stay put!
They kids have had a tough go with this. There mom hasnt been around. She showed up to one of SS15 bday games while i was in the hospital and that was it. We celebrated SS14 bday on sunday at the hospital and she didnt show. No surprise.
My lawyer has everything filed and she hasnt disputed it so far. We just have to see the judge and get it finalized.
I did have a phone conversation with her today. I had to laugh, she still blames me for everything. Right down to her mom, brother and the rest of her family not wanting much to do with her. She thinks i brain washed them into hating her. I laughed and she didnt like it to much. All i could say was, "when you finally grow up and realize who is responsible for your life, i only hope its not to late!"
THere was no point in trying to prove her wrong or show her the error in her thinking. She cant face the life she has chosen, no one can force her to do that.
I did tell her that she will always be important to me and that i really want her to have a relationship with our children. I cant do everything for her like i have been but i would help if she asked me to. She didnt say much. I told her that i want to meet the judge as soon as we can so this chapter can be put behind us. She still didnt say much. I said goodbye and asked her to let me know what she was doing about her weekend with the kids. she said she didnt know so i hung up the phone.
I will say that while i was sick, i had a friend from work visit me daily at the hospital. I was her boss until this year and always thought that was it. She started coming by just to say hi, then it was a daily occurance. She then said that she has liked me for almost 3 years and that she just had to say something to me. Thankfully she wasnt too offended when i said that i was shocked by this and that at this point in my life i had no idea where i was going. She was cool with that, continued to spend hours with me to pass the time.
so alot of new developments in my life. But im home again, feeling better and Im gonna win this battle. Oh and im gonna start my life with a fresh new start in the process.
