Looking for the silver lining...

[irishblessings]

So, S just got home and was very high strung. Said he got in the car with his Dad and "went off". Said he told him that he was almost 18 and couldn't deal with him treating him like a child - especially when he wasn't in his life. Said that he was a man and he deserved to know the truth about what really happened. Said he had no desire to have a relationship with OW or mistress - told him he thought she was trashy and that she had no invitation to come around him asking questions about his life.

I just listened - when he was finished - I just asked him "how do you feel about how you handled the situation" - he said - I feel good.

Another day.