Yeah...Now What?

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I'm new to this board, but not to this site. For those who don't visit the newcomers board often, I'll give you the cliff notes version of my sitch.

H & I have been married over 5 years now, but have been separated for 8 months. 8 months today, as a matter of fact. We have no children together, I have a S15 & S10 from a previous M, and he has a S7 from a previous relationship.

I'll be the first to admit that a lot of the problems we were having were due to my own issues I've had in life and not dealing with them properly. I took my H for granted in a lot of ways and did not treat him very well.
I started to see a C for myself back in January, and with her help I have changed my life dramatically. I am so proud of the woman I am becoming.
H moved out Feb 20th and has been staying with a "coworker". I use this term loosely because I'm about 92% positive there is more to it than that.

We have not seen or spoken to one another since May, and even though their isn't anything filed at this point, I think it's pretty safe to say our M is over.