I used to think the very old saying of "If you love something let it go, if it was meant to be yours it will come back" was a hokey bit of wisdom.
Now I'm starting to see it's a truism for a reason. Hang tough.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD