CTH,
I agree with SunFunOne. Take time and find you again! I, too looked around right after things were done and it was disaster. Now, 18 months out I'm in a much better place to attract a "quality" person. Patience, patience, patience. She will be worth the wait.

I did a Rebuilding Seminar for 10 weeks and it did wonders. Also, look for meetup groups in your area to find others with your same interests (not necessarily for dating).


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B