Gunny:
Since she has arrived everything has been just fine. I just have to accept the fact that the D is one of her primary focal points, and I need to go along for the ride. She is checking off boxes on her 'to-do' list that is guiding her out of her depression and onto eternal happiness. I am just a box on the list.

Only time will tell. Completely out of my control.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012