Hi Jack. Doing well. XW has really lost much of her anger if not all. The calls are increasing (re the kids) and texts/emails diminishing. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if she marries her OM but seems that THAT is working in my favor with regards to time seeing my kids.

Overall, I DO NOT THINK that my marriage was salvageable in any way shape or form. We are now apart nearly 16 months. Last week, XW's sister came to S11's baseball game (who, btw, is becoming an amazing pitcher). I hadn't seen her in nearly 3 or 4 years. She burst into tears, hugged me and said 'some of us see clearer than others'. Well, makes you feel better but the divorce is 'old' now and in the past.

In a nutshell....

Hope you are well. FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;