Well ... there are plenty of those around, certainly most of the women I'm close to. I wonder what it is about you that hasn't attracted those women into your life?
Quite the contrary. But looking back, I often mistook it for flirtation just to get attention, not real sexual interest. Or, at best, I assumed it was just flash-in-the-pan interest like my wife showed when we first met.
Remember the 2003 Newsweek cover showing a married couple in bed, the man working on a laptop and the woman eating ice cream, both looking stressed? The cover title was "No Sex, Please, We're Married". My response was, "Yep, ain't that the truth", and so I assumed it was pretty universal.
