OLW, I agree. It is that perceived stubbornness of the WAS (or confusion of the MLCer) and the blinders they wear...
Of course, that doesn't mean they MUST see the LBS changes and want that back... it just means that very often, they will not open up to the option of R... because their own fears are too great or they deflect their fears by "pretending" their chasing their dreams...
Anyhow, like AC and a couple others around here at this transition... the future can not be predicted... just create a future you can be proud of and be a freakin' awesome dad to those D's of yours...