Good morning AC, I asked the coach about the next 3 stages, she said she did not want to get into them right now, wanted me to concentrate on the first stage, i.e. letting the dust settle. She said she is the expert, to listen to her and initially said that during this stage, she did not want me to go on this board, for the next month. I told her that would be very difficult, since I felt that reading and interacting on the board was really helping me cope with my sitch. She then modified her response and told me to lessen my interaction.
Her reason for instructing me to interact less was because she said her philospohy on going dark or dim was different from many of the people on the board, she believes that if s makes initial contact thete is nothing wrong with maintaining contact on a friendly level for as long or as often as it feels comfortable, although you still want to control the tempo and lenghth hof the conv.
Fom my reading of your sitch, and the type of guy you are, this probably comports pretty well with your philospohy/personality. I think you and I are similar in our approaches, i.e. maintain friendly cordial relations. How is your sps trip home going?
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!
