lc4 - it always brings joy to my heart when I see you've stopped in.
Yes, I am incredibly proud of my S. I want him to grow in a positive way through this, too. I've also had to walk the fine line with him on why things are the way they are. The only reason my W has given him is that she's unhappy. Frankly, she hasn't given me much more than that. My S has rarely, if never, has seen us fight. I've gone as far as to tell him I didn't kick Mommy out and that I still love her. I have not suggested, however, that we'd get back together or anything similar. I am trying to show him through my own actions where to turn in adversity. He's definitely seeing that I'm doing something at church several times a week.