NTX - take the positives as indicator YOU are heading in the right direction with your life. Perhaps your W will eventually get it and follow your direction.
Originally Posted By: NTXSadDad
It donned on me that I want her back and that I still have lots of hope. But the logic in me says that I CANNOT go back to what we had because she has not worked on herself that I know of. I don't want to feel insecure or worried that she'll become unhappy again and move out later down the road and do this whole process over again.
I think I'll stick with my current plan to GAL and detach.
I know exactly what you're saying here. You definitely don't want to go back to what you had previously because it will lead to a worse situation.
I think you have a good game plan going.
PS - sorry about the bad post above. Somehow I hit the right keystrokes to make it post before I was ready.