NTX - take the positives as indicator YOU are heading in the right direction with your life. Perhaps your W will eventually get it and follow your direction.

Originally Posted By: NTXSadDad

It donned on me that I want her back and that I still have lots of hope. But the logic in me says that I CANNOT go back to what we had because she has not worked on herself that I know of. I don't want to feel insecure or worried that she'll become unhappy again and move out later down the road and do this whole process over again.

I think I'll stick with my current plan to GAL and detach.

I know exactly what you're saying here. You definitely don't want to go back to what you had previously because it will lead to a worse situation.

I think you have a good game plan going.

PS - sorry about the bad post above. Somehow I hit the right keystrokes to make it post before I was ready.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26