Hello Telemark,
Thanks for poppin in. I have read some of your sitch, among the many others on this board. After a while, there are so many similarities that I start to lose track.
I'm sure you have been told this before, but I am sorry to see you on this board, but we have come to a good place as far as getting good advice.

I hadnt really thought about the emotional aspect of being frozen emotionally at the age of trauma, but it makes complete sense. I have worked in the addictions field in the past, and it is not uncommon for addicts to remain emotionally stunted to the age when they first used, but I did not make the connection about emotional trauma.
You are right, no doubt on many occasions I took my sp for granted. I am hoping to god that at some point in the future i get the chance to make this up to her.

I will continue to read up on your sitch, If i can ask what is the latest?
Thank you again for your comments
, and hang in there
Gunny


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!