Well my friends, my journey is over with the ex. I have just come from court and the judge signed the paper. My journey has been long and I have learned alot from this board and my C. I will be moving over to the Suriving the Big D forum, but I will stay caught up with everyone. I have grown and learned so much about my self during this whole ordeal. MWD's advice is spot on only if the WAS would open there eyes and see the ne version of there spouse and hard they have worked to be a better person. I will continue on this path because it feels right and maybe just maybe I will get another chance at loving someone...