I totally hear you, working. I have found myself over-analyzing every movement, each word, each facial expression.. heck, even his body language sitting in the chair watching star trek. You will drive yourself crazy doing this... I know, cause I have done this myself.
I have had been practicing to detach from his every single move, or how he speaks when he says something. Some things I pay attention to, and others I do not.
I keep telling myself... how can I rationalize an MLC'er's thoughts, or behavior, when the MLC'er themselves are confused!
I think this is where some detachment really helps. I know, it is easier said than done and I'm still learning to put it to practice. But once you detach from some behaviors and just don't let yourself go there... and analyze every move, it does help and gets a little better to deal with.
