Aren't you divorced? Are you still trying to get back together with your W?
IMHO, I've seen people succeed with what robx suggested and some not. It depends on what you did that was different that worked on your W.
In terms of your sitch, you really haven't give her any time to actually BE single. Maybe you need to move on and stop rescuing her. Only then can she see what she's missing.
Yes, I am divorced.
No, I am not trying to get back together with XW.
Nothing worked during the sitch. I mean nothing. XW got a L and filed. Just look at the time line in my signature.
I was as Robx said "melty man."
I just wondered if I had been more hard line whether or not she would have had second thoughts if her "plans" were really worth the sacrifices. IDK. I tried not to be an AH and tried to protect my S12. Perhaps she would have filed no matter what.
The agreement now is she moves out when D17 graduates in May.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
