and just for a quick update, when the seas have been calm for so long, around 18months since son or I heard from the ex, he has come up trumps again and cancelled the payment on sons life insurance, this is a policy he took out when son was born and was due to mature in eight, yes eight months time. I imagine he has just found out he is still paying into it or is so desperate for cash that yet again he as robbed his only child, low life or what I think this is lower than a snakes belly