ROMB, I think detaching will help with your anxiety. I have seen a substantial decrease in my anxiety after doing some detaching from my W's drama and emotions.
I think your coach will be able to help. Since money's tight for you, you may want to take some time to prepare for your session. Put together a pretty good summary of what going on right now. Write down your questions ahead of time. I think the more you can prepare, the more you will get out of your session.
Off the wall question: have you taken your D to get a pumpkin yet?
