Thanks IS and 25... I'll admit it was hard to pull back on this one... I tried to look at it through her eyes. She truly sees value in spiritualists while I don't see quite as much. What I find truly frustrating is that she'll go drive two hours to see "the witches" and have a spiritual reading but won't drive the 10 blocks over to the mental health practitioner and get counseling. She doesn't trust those counselor types... WTH?
I've long considered spiritualists, at least the ones who aren't just complete shams, to simply be reflectors. They are good at reading people and asking questions to elicit information that allows them to confirm the person's world view. So what I used it for was some type of sense of where she is at, and what her reaction to it was.
Not a lot of value but might as well find something worthwhile in the exchange right?
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD