Aren't you divorced? Are you still trying to get back together with your W?
IMHO, I've seen people succeed with what robx suggested and some not. It depends on what you did that was different that worked on your W.
In terms of your sitch, you really haven't give her any time to actually BE single. Maybe you need to move on and stop rescuing her. Only then can she see what she's missing.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
