MrBond: I agree completely. I really struggle with finding the right words to tell her that she's mistreating me when it happens. How could I say that to her without her feeling blamed?

gb: you are probably right. If I had to take a honest guess between the two scenarios you described, I'd say it's the latter. I guess I pose the same question to you as I did MrBond...how can I tell her she's mistreating me without her getting pissed?

Things seem to be turning back a bit toward the positive side. We'll see how it goes. D5 turned 6 today!!! Can't wait to get home and celebrate.

Oh...interesting convo with W the other night sitting next to a fire in the backyard. She told me that she thinks she might have hypothyroidism...she showed me the list of possible symptoms and it seems possible. Anyone have any experience with that?


BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.